FOMO is one of the few Internet acronyms to have prevailed in psychology papers, evening news, and all college colleges in America. But what does FOMO mean, where does it come from and how is it used?
Fear of Omission
FOMO is simply an acronym for "fear of omission" the fear of missing opportunities. Typically, the FOMO feeling goes hand in hand with the idea that someone else (friends, family or co-workers) is taking part in the opportunity you miss. It's a little bit as if you know or keep up with the Jones.
FOMO is usually used to describe social situations. You can experience FOMO, for example, when you can not go to a cool party or concert with your friends. That's why FOMO has a very juvenile or childish connotation, and the word appears in almost every news article about millennials. (Psychologists and market researchers particularly love the term.)
But FOMO is sometimes used to describe the fear of missing out on occupational or "life chances," such as For example, to graduate, retire before the age of 70, buy shares or get a promotion. It is not strictly a "youth" phenomenon, and there is no reason why you should not use FOMO to describe "serious" non-social situations.
Strangely, we have a decent idea of where the word FOMO came from. It appears that the word was first printed on paper in a 2004 Harvard Business School student paper The Harbus by a student named Patrick McGinnis.
In his article, McGinnis describes two opposing but interlinked forces: FOMO and FOBO. We already know that FOMO is the Fear of Missing and that its use in McGinnis' articles has the same social connotations as it does today. But McGinnis calls FOBO (fear of a better option) for the idea of engagement. People who suffer from FOBO may be reluctant to flesh out plans for fear of a better opportunity at the last minute.
In McGinnis' article, FOMO and FOBO culminate in an existential impasse: FODA (afraid of doing anything). When people are afraid to miss opportunities (FOMO) and at the same time fearful of involvement (FOBO), the result is a social catatonia.
In an article published by Boston Magazine in 2014, Ben Schreckinger suspects that these acronyms date from the late 1990s / early 2000s (9/11, the dotcom eruption, the advent of mobile phones). But the word was not introduced into the general colloquial language until the 2010s, when (psychologists say) the sentiment among young people grew due to the use of social media and the internet.
How to use FOMO?
They use FOMO "is not an enabling, existential investigation. It's just a matter of semantics. When do you use FOMO in one sentence? Is it appropriate to tell FOMO to your boss, or will Internet teens make fun of you when you say FOMO?
Let's start with the grammar. Unlike "LOL", it is difficult to stick FOMO intuitively into a sentence. This is because the word FOMO provides a lot of flexibility grammatically. You can use it directly instead of "Fear of Missing" or you can use FOMO as a noun, as if FOMO is a devil on your shoulder forcing you to feel fear or fear. And of course you can use FOMO as a funny Internet word that violates minor grammatical rules.
Here are some examples of the grammatical flexibility of FOMO:
- Instead of "Fear of Omission"
- "I have a cold, but my deep-seated FOMO has forced me to this party. "
- " His FOMO It was too much for him, so he drove 2,000 miles to get to this concert. "
- As a noun
- "FOMO has brought me to this party even though I have a cold."
- "Accuse FOMO; That's why he went to this concert. "
- As a funny internet word
- "I have a cold, but I came to this party because of FOMO."
- "Why did he go so far for this concert because FOMO, Dummy!"
Now that you know how to use FOMO in one sentence, you may wonder when You should only use FOMO to describe a situation where someone is afraid of missing an opportunity, which is usually synonymous with social situations (you can not go to a cool party), but you can also use it to describe serious or professional situations (you and your staff stay late at work to track a promotion).  And do not worry, kids will not make fun of you when they say FOMO It's not really a buzzword or a meme, it's just a modern descriptor for an ancient feeling reinforced by social media, which means your boss will probably think you're childish when you're in a serious situation FOMO say. Avoid this.
If you're reading this article because of your personal Internet-related FOMO, this might be the case. It's worthwhile dealing with other crazy Internet words. Words such as "TL; DR" and "Yeet" are often used in social networks and news articles, and understanding their meaning can save you from some FOMO on the road.